tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-76216804101756009712024-03-21T23:07:30.101-04:00Blaque Is Getting Ripped: More Than A Weight Loss BlogIf losing weight was easy, everyone would be thin!Blaquehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02424582020806086459noreply@blogger.comBlogger89125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7621680410175600971.post-77788312403456130802014-02-28T20:41:00.002-05:002014-02-28T20:41:53.558-05:00I Think That Maybe I Could Possibly Have Commitment Issues<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">I have a confession to make. I hardly ever finish anything that I start. I'll have a brilliant idea, get all excited about it, then a few days later my brilliant idea can be found crumpled up and lifeless in the bottom of File 13. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">And when it comes to relationships, romantic or platonic, as soon as any real work is required to sustain it...I'm done. I can't...well don't exert a lot of energy trying to keep friendships and relationships alive. How else could you explain a smart, articulate, gainfully employed, stunningly beautiful and extremely modest woman such as myself going 43 years without ever once jumping the broom? I have three very nice engagement rings though...but I digress.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">Last week one of my good friends invited me to go to a dance...a much needed night on the town. Initially I said yes but then emailed him the next day and basically told him that I'd rather be in bed sleeping than to stay out past 9pm. I couldn't even commit to one night out. The fact that he wasn't offended speaks volumes about our friendship. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">And regarding diet and exercise? When the weight is coming off and I am "in the zone" I'm good. I'm all in. But let me hit a plateau or let things become hard and I throw in the towel...every time.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">Although I've been trying to convince myself otherwise, I have mentally checked out of this whole weight loss thing because it's becoming increasingly harder. Why couldn't I have started this blog when I was 240 pounds? I could have WOWed everyone with my incredible shrinking waistline. I would have had amazing milestones and impressive before/after photos to post back when I had more weight to lose...back when losing weight was easier.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">At some point however, I have to stop giving up when things get tough. I have to be a ride or die type chick! Reaching my weight loss goal is something I want more than anything in the world. And no, it's not going to be easy. I'm going to have to fight for it. I don't have the foggiest idea how I'm gonna do it, but <strong>I'M GONNA DO IT.</strong> For once in my life, I have to see something through to its fruition. I have to stay committed.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">Today, I am taking a vow to stay committed to this process. I vow to take care of my body through diet and exercise...in times of failure and in times of triumph, from this day forward, as long as God allows me to live!</span></div>
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My prayer for anyone struggling to stay committed to their diet and/or weight loss is that you also take a vow to be loyal to yourself. Cherish and respect your body through health and fitness. It's hard, but you're worth it. We're worth it.</div>
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<span style="color: black; font-family: inherit;">I'm up 10 pounds since I last officially weighed in on 2/5 and oh how I wish I could blame it on wicked scale demons. The truth is that I have been going way over the 1200 calories I'm supposed to be consuming a day. Yesterday I was at 1505, the day before it was 1380...and that is me trying to stay close to 1200. When I wasn't tracking my calories, God only knows how many I was consuming.</span></div>
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<span style="color: black; font-family: inherit;">This month I have been emotionally out of the game. I've lost weight before and I know I will lose it again. So I am going to keep pushing, not obsess over the weight gain, and do whatever I can do to get re-focused.</span></div>
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<span style="color: black; font-family: inherit;">My goal for next Wednesday: 2 pounds. I just want to be out of the 150s. This is my danger zone. I need to get myself out of it before things get really scary. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">Looking back at this photo, I doubt that anyone would think I was fat. But when I was in high school, that’s exactly what I was…fat. At least in my mind anyway. I wasn’t thin as a rail like a lot of the other girls my age. I had a body like
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">Eventually, I developed such an abnormal relationship with my body and with food that I wouldn’t eat in the cafeteria at lunch time. Most of the time, I’d go all day without eating
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">It didn’t stop there. I was so ashamed of my body that I wouldn’t “dress out” in gym class. I actually failed gym twice in high school...TWICE. All because I didn’t want to change clothes in front of the other girls and reveal to anyone
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">But the worst of it came when I started abusing over the counter diet pills. The recommended dosage was one pill a day. I was taking 2 to 3 while drinking nothing but orange juice and canned soup. I remember being so lethargic that I would
come home from school, fall out on the sofa and sleep until it was time to get up and get ready for bed. I was acting so strangely and sleeping so much that a rumor got started within my family that I was pregnant. The truth? I was suffering from an eating
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">This is National Eating Disorder Awareness Week.
<span style="color: black;">In the United States alone, 20 million women and 10 million men suffer from an eating disorder at some time in their life. For various reasons, many cases, like mine, are not to be reported. In addition, many individuals struggle with
body dissatisfaction and sub-clinical disordered eating attitudes and behaviors, and the best-known contributor to the development of anorexia nervosa and bulimia nervosa is body dissatisfaction. It’s hard to believe but by age 6, girls start to express concerns
about their own weight or shape. 40-60% of elementary school girls (ages 6-12) are concerned about their weight or about becoming too fat. This concern often endures through life.</span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">If had one wish, it would be that I could tell these young teen and preteen girl that they are beautiful. I don’t think anyone in my family ever told me that. But if I could go around door to door looking young girls in the eye, I’d give
them a great big hug and tell them that they are beautiful. I’d tell them that yes, everyone is different. But every body type, hair color, eye color, skin color…is all beautiful. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">There is a line between self-acceptance and wanting to be the healthiest most fit version of me that I can be. And I will admit, sometimes that line is blurred. There are some days that I like the person I see in the mirror and other times
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Blaquehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02424582020806086459noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7621680410175600971.post-24299269500395194732014-02-25T09:51:00.001-05:002014-02-25T09:51:49.962-05:00Sayonara Eating Disorders: NEDA & The "I Had No Idea" Initiative<p class="mobile-photo"><a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-BCGBwaJiGiM/UwyuB47wyMI/AAAAAAAAFD4/-KJCOJG-AwM/s1600/Screen-Shot-2014-02-24-at-1.59.03-PM-709962.png"><img src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-BCGBwaJiGiM/UwyuB47wyMI/AAAAAAAAFD4/-KJCOJG-AwM/s320/Screen-Shot-2014-02-24-at-1.59.03-PM-709962.png" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5984349352354695362" /></a></p><div class="WordSection1"> <p style="mso-margin-top-alt:0in;margin-right:0in;margin-bottom:12.0pt;margin-left:0in;line-height:20.25pt;background:white"> <span style="font-size:11.0pt;font-family:"Calibri","sans-serif";color:#333333">As folks (particularly women) strive to reach some illusionary notion of “perfection” – often through unnatural means – one organization is dedicating this week to usher in some sanity and positive sense of self behind one of the most persistent issues affecting Americans by the millions: Weight. The National Eating Disorders Association (NEDA) is launching its 27th annual National Eating Disorders Awareness Week from Feb. 23 – March 1. It’s their intention to educate and heal sufferers and their families regarding the complex disease.<o:p></o:p></span></p> <p style="mso-margin-top-alt:0in;margin-right:0in;margin-bottom:12.0pt;margin-left:0in;line-height:20.25pt;background:white"> <span style="font-size:11.0pt;font-family:"Calibri","sans-serif";color:#333333">Eating disorders can take on many forms, affecting women and men of all cultural backgrounds, especially in the US, where we’re force fed questionable and unattainable standards of physical beauty. The NEDA Awareness theme “I Had No Idea” aims to set the record straight about the pervasive, detrimental nature of eating disorders. The nationwide effort will unite communities to raise awareness about body image and bring national attention to the severity of eating disorders, which are bio-psycho-social illnesses with often devastating – sometimes life-threatening – consequences. While there is hope and recovery is possible – particularly with early intervention – many people suffer from the long-term effects of these illnesses.<o:p></o:p></span></p> <p style="mso-margin-top-alt:0in;margin-right:0in;margin-bottom:12.0pt;margin-left:0in;line-height:20.25pt;background:white"> <strong><span style="font-size:11.0pt;font-family:"Calibri","sans-serif";color:#333333;border:none windowtext 1.0pt;padding:0in">NEDA is motivated by some pretty dire facts:</span></strong><span style="font-size:11.0pt;font-family:"Calibri","sans-serif";color:#333333"><o:p></o:p></span></p> <p style="mso-margin-top-alt:0in;margin-right:0in;margin-bottom:12.0pt;margin-left:0in;line-height:20.25pt;background:white;orphans: auto;text-align:start;widows: auto;-webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px;word-spacing:0px"> <span style="font-size:11.0pt;font-family:"Calibri","sans-serif";color:#333333">-The rate of development of new cases of eating disorders overall has been increasing since 1950.<o:p></o:p></span></p> <p style="mso-margin-top-alt:0in;margin-right:0in;margin-bottom:12.0pt;margin-left:0in;line-height:20.25pt;background:white;orphans: auto;text-align:start;widows: auto;-webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px;word-spacing:0px"> <span style="font-size:11.0pt;font-family:"Calibri","sans-serif";color:#333333">-40% of newly identified cases of anorexia are in girls 15-19 years old.<o:p></o:p></span></p> <p style="margin:0in;margin-bottom:.0001pt;line-height:20.25pt;background:white;orphans: auto;text-align:start;widows: auto;-webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px;word-spacing:0px"> <span style="font-size:11.0pt;font-family:"Calibri","sans-serif";color:#333333">-<strong><span style="font-family:"Calibri","sans-serif";border:none windowtext 1.0pt;padding:0in">The prevalence of eating disorders is similar among non-Hispanic Whites, Hispanics, African-Americans and Asians…</span></strong><o:p></o:p></span></p> <p style="mso-margin-top-alt:0in;margin-right:0in;margin-bottom:12.0pt;margin-left:0in;line-height:20.25pt;background:white;orphans: auto;text-align:start;widows: auto;-webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px;word-spacing:0px"> <span style="font-size:11.0pt;font-family:"Calibri","sans-serif";color:#333333">-It is common for eating disorders to occur with one or more other psychiatric disorders, which can complicate treatment and make recovery more difficult.<o:p></o:p></span></p> <p style="mso-margin-top-alt:0in;margin-right:0in;margin-bottom:12.0pt;margin-left:0in;line-height:20.25pt;background:white;orphans: auto;text-align:start;widows: auto;-webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px;word-spacing:0px"> <span style="font-size:11.0pt;font-family:"Calibri","sans-serif";color:#333333">-The average American woman is 5’4” tall and weighs 165 pounds. The average Miss America winner is 5’7” and weighs 121 pounds.<o:p></o:p></span></p> <p style="mso-margin-top-alt:0in;margin-right:0in;margin-bottom:12.0pt;margin-left:0in;line-height:20.25pt;background:white;orphans: auto;text-align:start;widows: auto;-webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px;word-spacing:0px"> <span style="font-size:11.0pt;font-family:"Calibri","sans-serif";color:#333333">-Most fashion models are thinner than 98% of American women.<o:p></o:p></span></p> <p style="mso-margin-top-alt:0in;margin-right:0in;margin-bottom:12.0pt;margin-left:0in;line-height:20.25pt;background:white;orphans: auto;text-align:start;widows: auto;-webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px;word-spacing:0px"> <span style="font-size:11.0pt;font-family:"Calibri","sans-serif";color:#333333">-For females between 15- and 24-years-old who suffer from anorexia nervosa, the mortality rate associated with the illness is 12 times higher than the death rate of all other causes of death.<o:p></o:p></span></p> <p style="mso-margin-top-alt:0in;margin-right:0in;margin-bottom:12.0pt;margin-left:0in;line-height:20.25pt;background:white;orphans: auto;text-align:start;widows: auto;-webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px;word-spacing:0px"> <span style="font-size:11.0pt;font-family:"Calibri","sans-serif";color:#333333">Somewhere in the neighborhood of 20 million women and 10 million men suffer from a clinically significant eating disorder at some point in their lives, including anorexia nervosa, bulimia nervosa, binge eating disorder, or an eating disorder not otherwise specified (EDNOS). Additionally, 4 out of 10 Americans either suffered or have known someone who has suffered from an eating disorder.<o:p></o:p></span></p> <p style="mso-margin-top-alt:0in;margin-right:0in;margin-bottom:12.0pt;margin-left:0in;line-height:20.25pt;background:white;orphans: auto;text-align:start;widows: auto;-webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px;word-spacing:0px"> <span style="font-size:11.0pt;font-family:"Calibri","sans-serif";color:#333333">The week long initiative will offer a number of events, including, presentations and health fairs in schools and on college campuses; screenings of informational films; fashion shows featuring men and women of all body types; art shows; Scale-Smashing events (encouraging people to examine their “relationship” with the scale and begin a dialog); The Great Jeans Giveaway (encouraging people to get rid of jeans that don’t fit and to “be comfortable in your genes”); and NEDA Walks.<o:p></o:p></span></p> <p style="margin:0in;margin-bottom:.0001pt;line-height:20.25pt;background:white;orphans: auto;text-align:start;widows: auto;-webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px;word-spacing:0px"> <span style="font-size:11.0pt;font-family:"Calibri","sans-serif";color:#333333">If no such events are going down in your immediate area, NEDA’s got you covered. Free Webinars are available to enlighten and inform. As a matter of fact the</span><span class="apple-converted-space"><span style="font-size:11.0pt;font-family:"Calibri","sans-serif";color:#333333"> </span></span><strong><span style="font-size:11.0pt;font-family:"Calibri","sans-serif";color:#333333;border:none windowtext 1.0pt;padding:0in">Eating Disorders in African American Communities</span></strong><span class="apple-converted-space"><span style="font-size:11.0pt;font-family:"Calibri","sans-serif";color:#333333"> </span></span><span style="font-size:11.0pt;font-family:"Calibri","sans-serif";color:#333333">course will be held this Wednesday, Feb. 26, 3 – 4:30 p.m. EST, by Gayle Brooks, MD, Gwen Vann and Benjamin O’Keefe. Visit</span><span class="apple-converted-space"><span style="font-size:11.0pt;font-family:"Calibri","sans-serif";color:#333333"> </span></span><span style="font-size:11.0pt;font-family:"Calibri","sans-serif";color:#333333"><a href="http://www.nationaleatingdisorders.org/Webinars" target="_blank"><span style="color:#333333;border:none windowtext 1.0pt;padding:0in">http://www.nationaleatingdisorders.org/Webinars</span></a></span><span class="apple-converted-space"><span style="font-size:11.0pt;font-family:"Calibri","sans-serif";color:#333333"> </span></span><span style="font-size:11.0pt;font-family:"Calibri","sans-serif";color:#333333">for more info, and to enroll.<o:p></o:p></span></p> <p style="margin:0in;margin-bottom:.0001pt;line-height:20.25pt;background:white"> <span style="font-size:11.0pt;font-family:"Calibri","sans-serif";color:#333333"><o:p> </o:p></span></p> <p style="margin:0in;margin-bottom:.0001pt;line-height:20.25pt;background:white;orphans: auto;text-align:start;widows: auto;-webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px;word-spacing:0px"> <strong><span style="font-size:11.0pt;font-family:"Calibri","sans-serif";color:#333333;border:none windowtext 1.0pt;padding:0in">10 Signs of an Eating Disorder</span></strong><span style="font-size:11.0pt;font-family:"Calibri","sans-serif";color:#333333"><o:p></o:p></span></p> <p style="mso-margin-top-alt:0in;margin-right:0in;margin-bottom:12.0pt;margin-left:0in;line-height:20.25pt;background:white;orphans: auto;text-align:start;widows: auto;-webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px;word-spacing:0px"> <span style="font-size:11.0pt;font-family:"Calibri","sans-serif";color:#333333">1. Drastic weight loss.<o:p></o:p></span></p> <p style="mso-margin-top-alt:0in;margin-right:0in;margin-bottom:12.0pt;margin-left:0in;line-height:20.25pt;background:white;orphans: auto;text-align:start;widows: auto;-webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px;word-spacing:0px"> <span style="font-size:11.0pt;font-family:"Calibri","sans-serif";color:#333333">2. Preoccupation with counting calories.<o:p></o:p></span></p> <p style="mso-margin-top-alt:0in;margin-right:0in;margin-bottom:12.0pt;margin-left:0in;line-height:20.25pt;background:white;orphans: auto;text-align:start;widows: auto;-webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px;word-spacing:0px"> <span style="font-size:11.0pt;font-family:"Calibri","sans-serif";color:#333333">3. The need to weigh yourself several times a day.<o:p></o:p></span></p> <p style="mso-margin-top-alt:0in;margin-right:0in;margin-bottom:12.0pt;margin-left:0in;line-height:20.25pt;background:white;orphans: auto;text-align:start;widows: auto;-webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px;word-spacing:0px"> <span style="font-size:11.0pt;font-family:"Calibri","sans-serif";color:#333333">4. Excessive exercise.<o:p></o:p></span></p> <p style="mso-margin-top-alt:0in;margin-right:0in;margin-bottom:12.0pt;margin-left:0in;line-height:20.25pt;background:white;orphans: auto;text-align:start;widows: auto;-webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px;word-spacing:0px"> <span style="font-size:11.0pt;font-family:"Calibri","sans-serif";color:#333333">5. Binge eating or purging.<o:p></o:p></span></p> <p style="mso-margin-top-alt:0in;margin-right:0in;margin-bottom:12.0pt;margin-left:0in;line-height:20.25pt;background:white;orphans: auto;text-align:start;widows: auto;-webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px;word-spacing:0px"> <span style="font-size:11.0pt;font-family:"Calibri","sans-serif";color:#333333">6. Food rituals, like taking tiny bites, skipping food groups or re-arranging food on the plate.<o:p></o:p></span></p> <p style="mso-margin-top-alt:0in;margin-right:0in;margin-bottom:12.0pt;margin-left:0in;line-height:20.25pt;background:white;orphans: auto;text-align:start;widows: auto;-webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px;word-spacing:0px"> <span style="font-size:11.0pt;font-family:"Calibri","sans-serif";color:#333333">7. Avoiding meals or only wanting to eat alone.<o:p></o:p></span></p> <p style="mso-margin-top-alt:0in;margin-right:0in;margin-bottom:12.0pt;margin-left:0in;line-height:20.25pt;background:white;orphans: auto;text-align:start;widows: auto;-webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px;word-spacing:0px"> <span style="font-size:11.0pt;font-family:"Calibri","sans-serif";color:#333333">8. Taking laxatives or diuretics.<o:p></o:p></span></p> <p style="mso-margin-top-alt:0in;margin-right:0in;margin-bottom:12.0pt;margin-left:0in;line-height:20.25pt;background:white;orphans: auto;text-align:start;widows: auto;-webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px;word-spacing:0px"> <span style="font-size:11.0pt;font-family:"Calibri","sans-serif";color:#333333">9. Smoking to curb appetite.<o:p></o:p></span></p> <p style="mso-margin-top-alt:0in;margin-right:0in;margin-bottom:12.0pt;margin-left:0in;line-height:20.25pt;background:white;orphans: auto;text-align:start;widows: auto;-webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px;word-spacing:0px"> <span style="font-size:11.0pt;font-family:"Calibri","sans-serif";color:#333333">10. Persistent view of yourself as fat that worsens despite weight loss<o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="orphans: auto;text-align:start;widows: auto;-webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px;word-spacing:0px"> <span style="color:#333333">If you’ve seen, or experienced any of the symptoms listed above, don’t hesitate to familiarize yourself with NEDA and their “I Had No Idea” initiative. The campaign may only be a week long, but it’s designed to generate positive change for a lifetime.<o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="color:#333333"><o:p> </o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="color:#333333">http://www.clutchmagonline.com/2014/02/sayonara-eating-disorders-neda-thei-idea-initiative/<o:p></o:p></span></p> </div> Blaquehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02424582020806086459noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7621680410175600971.post-10641867305380015902014-02-24T12:08:00.001-05:002014-02-24T12:08:46.481-05:00Article: That Stuff Hurt My Feelings Because I'm A Human Being<p class="mobile-photo"><a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-afih7qq0mig/Uwt8nhfSRSI/AAAAAAAAFDg/behNLvRCMCI/s1600/Gabourey-2-378x414-726481.jpg"><img src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-afih7qq0mig/Uwt8nhfSRSI/AAAAAAAAFDg/behNLvRCMCI/s320/Gabourey-2-378x414-726481.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5984013548338169122" /></a></p><div class="WordSection1"> <p class="MsoNormal"><b><span style="font-size:14.0pt">That Stuff Does Hurt My Feelings Because I’m A Human Being” Gabourey Sidibe Opens Up to Roland Martin About Her Critics<o:p></o:p></span></b></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><b><span style="font-size:14.0pt"><o:p> </o:p></span></b></p> <p class="MsoNormal">“Plus yo my b**ch make your b**ch look like Precious.”<o:p></o:p></p> <p>The Kanye West verse from “Mercy” has always been a bit disturbing because he isn’t referring to a computer animated graphic or an actor in makeup and a fat-suit, he’s referring to a real person. Although Precious was a character played by Gabourey Sidibe, if you haven’t noticed when it comes to looks, the two have a lot in common.<o:p></o:p></p> <p>In an Insta/Twitter kind of world, Kanye’s comments were among the first in what we could only call a slander campaign in in reference to Sidibe’s appearance. Despite an Academy Award nomination for Best Actress in <i>Precious</i>, and also phenomenal roles in movies like <i>Yelling To The Sky</i> and television roles in <i>American Horror Story: Coven</i>, much of the public chooses to still focus on her appearance rather than her acting skills.<o:p></o:p></p> <p>Journalist Roland Martin caught up with Sidibe before the 45th NAACP Image Awards to ask how she deals with the criticism:<o:p></o:p></p> <p>“I feel like they’re talking about me because I’m busy,” says Sidibe. “That stuff does hurt my feelings because I’m a human being. I’m not a weak, sensitive person. I’m merely a person…I have to tell myself sometimes, ‘These strangers are saying things about you but look around you. You are in your dream. You’re in everybody else’s dream. You’re living a really good life and you’re happy’.”<o:p></o:p></p> <p>Not too long ago Sidibe lashed out against Twitter trolls who criticized her red carpet look at the Golden Globes. She says her response was a reminder to herself and the critics that harsh comments about her weight are the least of her concerns because when she looks around she is living her dream.<o:p></o:p></p> <p>We think people should spend less time on the internet trying to assassinate someone’s appearance, and more time working on their own dream . In the meantime, we’re loving the way Sidibe handles the shade with class and a smile on her face. Sidibe recently debuted new movie <i>White Bird in a Blizzard</i> at Sundance. To hear the rest of her interview with Roland Martin and their “date” plans visit <a href="http://hellobeautiful.com/2014/02/19/gabourey-sidibe-haters/">HelloBeautiful.com</a>.<o:p></o:p></p> <p><a href="http://madamenoire.com/403718/stuff-hurt-feelings-im-human-gabourey-sidibe-opens-roland-martin-critics">http://madamenoire.com/403718/stuff-hurt-feelings-im-human-gabourey-sidibe-opens-roland-martin-critics</a><o:p></o:p></p> <p>My thoughts: Making a person feel bad about their appearance is the most despicable thing another person can do. We are all flawed. None of us, no matter what the magazines, movie, and media would have you think are perfect. But if I could tell this young sista anything, it would be to enjoy the life she’s living. But if she wants to have a LONG life, do something about your weight. I think Gabourey is beautiful, I hope she believes she is as well. You don’t have to be a doctor to know that she is unhealthy. She doesn’t look emotionally, spiritually or physically healthy in any, way shape or form. I think that people who take to social media to call her names or make nasty comments about her appearance should be ashamed of themselves. But there is a difference between being confident and being in denial. Losing weight won’t make her haters right. It will add years to her life. My prayer is that she realizes that sooner rather than later.<b><span style="font-size:14.0pt;font-family:"Calibri","sans-serif""><o:p></o:p></span></b></p> </div> Blaquehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02424582020806086459noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7621680410175600971.post-85305767615551759742014-02-24T11:06:00.001-05:002014-02-26T17:22:29.128-05:00Going Cold Turkey<div class="mobile-photo">
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">For a long period of time, I stopped going to Starbucks. One day however, I went for my mother, decided to buy a drink for myself, then got an upset stomach from all the sugar in my drink. I told myself that I would NEVER go back…but I did and eventually built up a tolerance to the sugar.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">In time, I stopped making my daily Starbucks run and lost a little weight. But as the weather changed, I got the brilliant idea of substituting my high calorie sugary drinks for their sugar-free alternatives. I convinced myself that an occasional sugar-free latte on a cold winter’s morning wouldn’t kill me. But like any addict, it started with sugar-free lattes then I slowly worked my way back up to the hard core <span lang="EN" style="font-weight: normal;">Caramel Macchiatos and my latest obsession, Carmel Flan Lattes. <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN" style="font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-family: inherit;">And my Nature Valley Protein Bars? I suffer from insomnia. And every time I wake up during the night I go to the kitchen and eat one. Sure, they are healthier than candy or chips, but I purchased a box yesterday and this morning the box is EMPTY. Gremlins? Nope, moi! I’m so disappointed in myself! 190 calories times 5 bars…clearly I’ve gone mad!<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN" style="font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-family: inherit;">I’m stronger than this. So I am going cold-turkey. No more trips to Starbucks and absolutely no more protein bars. These two things are wreaking havoc on my diet. <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">I think back to when I was preparing for Weight Loss Surgery. I had several meetings with a Nutritionist. I had to decide which WLS procedure I was going to have: <span lang="EN">Gastric Banding, Sleeve Gastrectomy, or </span><span lang="EN">Gastric Bypass Surgery. Because, I was a big sweets eater (more so than I am now if you can believe that) the Nutritionist suggested Gastric Bypass Surgery because with this option, I would “supposedly” be unable to eat anything with a high amount of sugar. Doing so would trigger what’s called D</span><span lang="EN">umping Syndrome. I won’t bore you with the details of dumping…Google it, if you’re feeling inquisitive. <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN"><span style="font-family: inherit;">Anyway, the thought of <b>NEVER</b> having anything sweet again sent chills down my spine. I’m not even kidding, I had just eaten an entire pint of Butter Pecan <span style="font-weight: normal;">Häagen</span><span class="st1">-</span><span style="font-weight: normal;">Dazs for dinner the night before (not making this up, I actually had ice cream for dinner) and the thought of never having it again petrified me. It was all I could do not to get up and <s>run</s> haul ass out of her office. That’s how hooked I was on the stuff. But now, more than two years later, I couldn’t tell you the last time I had it or even thought about it. For the record, I am one of the few people who CAN eat sweets and not experience dumping. I don’t know if that’s a good thing or a bad thing, but I can honestly say, even though I CAN eat ice cream, I don’t. I don’t crave even crave it anymore. And if I can rid myself of the all mighty Häagen</span><span class="st1">-</span><span style="font-weight: normal;">Dazs , I can rid myself of Starbucks and protein bars too.<o:p></o:p></span></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;"><span lang="EN" style="font-weight: normal;">If I could eat and drink these things in moderation I would. But I know that I can’t. Not right now. So until I reach my goal </span><span lang="EN">AND</span><span lang="EN" style="font-weight: normal;"> have maintained 135 pounds for a few months…those things don’t exist to me. <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="background: rgb(255, 255, 229);"><span style="font-family: inherit;">As always, thanks for reading.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;"><i>Beloved, I wish above all things that you may prosper and be in health, even as your soul prospers.</i><br /> <i> ~ 3 John 1:2 ~</i><o:p></o:p></span></div>
Blaquehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02424582020806086459noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7621680410175600971.post-76305349939456458322014-02-23T11:12:00.002-05:002014-02-23T11:12:39.472-05:00Article: Harder for black women to lose weight, reveals new study<h2>
Research claims African Caribbean women must do more to shed pounds</h2>
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WITH CHRISTMAS now out of the way, gyms across the country will be bracing themselves for the rush of people hoping to trim off the extra calories gained over the festive period.<br />
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But if new research is to be believed, black women have to eat fewer calories and take more excerise to lose the same amount of weight as their white counterparts.<br />
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In the report, published in the December 20 issue of International Journal of Obesity, James DeLany, an associate professor in the division of endocrinology and metabolism at the University of Pittsburgh School of Medicine, said black women having slower metabolic rates, which decreased their daily energy burn.<br />
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“At first, it was thought that perhaps the African American women didn’t adhere as closely to their calorie prescriptions or that the interventions were not culturally sensitive,” Dr James DeLany explained.<br />
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“But even in research projects that were designed to address those possibilities, the difference in weight loss remained.”<br />
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To reach this conclusion, 66 white and 69 black women were placed on the same calorie-restricted diet of an average of 1,800 calories a day for six months. They also were assigned the same exercise schedule.<br />
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The study found that black women on average lost seven pounds less than Caucasian women on the same diet.<br />
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Dr Mitch Roslin, chief of bariatric surgery at Lenox Hill Hospital in New York City, agreed there were racial and genetic differences in obesity, which had been backed up by previous studies.<br />
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“These things are real. However, this study advances our understanding by ruling out other explanations.<br />
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“It's not just related to socioeconomic class or access to care or environmental situations.”<br />
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Clara Mosha, a 46-year-old personal trainer and health coach from south London, said the findings were no excuse for women to let themselves go.<br />
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She said: “In my experience, this is very general and not specific to any ethnicity, but as you get older your metabolism slows down. In my 20s, I could eat anything and I had a lean body.”<br />
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The black community is prone to lifestyle diseases such as obesity, high cholesterol, high blood pressure and stroke, which have been linked to our type of diets.<br />
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Mosha added: “Our food has a lot of carbohydrates and the way we cook it, so we buy it fresh produce and then once cooked they lose all their nutrients.”<br />
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Statistics from the NHS Information Centre UK claim that 38 per cent of Black African women were obese, along with 32 per cent of Black Caribbean women.<br />
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Dr Jude Oben, a liver specialist at St Thomas Hospital said: “My reading of the research by is that clinicians and patients need to be aware that African-American patients have a lower resting metabolic rate and a lower total daily energy requirement. <br />
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"Therefore, if you are trying to downsize a group of patients, one half of whom are African-Americans and the other Caucasian, you need to give the African American population a lower daily energy target than the Caucasian population to achieve the same weight loss you need. <br />
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"If you don’t do this, your African American population will lose less weight than the Caucasian population, as their energy requirement per day is lower than that of the Caucasian population."<br />
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As a result of this, Mosha advised her clients wanting to improve their lifestyle, whether it is losing weight, increasing fitness or energy levels, that balancing exercise with a good diet was essential in order to lead a healthy lifestyle.<br />
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“You can improve your metabolism through exercise and the activity that you do. Mine is higher now than it was in my 20s, as I take my health seriously," she said.<br />
“Embrace a [healthy diet] as part of your my lifestyle and take care of yourself.”<br />
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<a href="http://www.voice-online.co.uk/article/harder-black-women-lose-weight-reveals-new-study">http://www.voice-online.co.uk/article/harder-black-women-lose-weight-reveals-new-study</a>Blaquehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02424582020806086459noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7621680410175600971.post-66742259170037179342014-02-21T19:42:00.000-05:002014-02-21T19:42:06.627-05:00Feeling Bad, Eating Bad...This MUST Stop<span style="font-family: inherit;"><span id="goog_472842628"></span><span id="goog_472842629"></span></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">Hi. My name is Yolanda and I've fallen...again!</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">I've been off track for about a week...a week and a half maybe. And man oh man, does it show.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: inherit;">I feel sluggish, heavy and I'm completely disgusted with myself. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">Despite my <strike>best efforts</strike> trying, I can't seem to pull it together and get back on my grind. My clothes are fitting a little tighter and the weight gain in my hips and thighs are very visible. So I got on the scale tonight for a little reality check...151 pounds. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">6 pounds in 7 days...who does that? When I weigh in again on Wednesday, I will take ANY weight loss. A pound...a half a pound...anything. I just need to get back to my routine of eating right and exercising consistently.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">As fate would have it, I received a new workout DVD in the mail today.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">Bob Harper, let's do this.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">My goals over the next 4 days is to do Bob Harper's Inside Out Method at least 3 out of 4 nights AND stay under 1200 calories a day. That is the tougher one for me. I am such an emotional eater. Sometimes I snack all day. But I know I need to start writing a different narrative for myself. If I actually ate my emotions I would be 600 pounds. I can't keep using sadness and frustration as excuses for eating poorly. And if I keep telling myself I am an emotional eater, I will never beat this thing.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">Moment of silence, please....</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">It all changes <strong>NOW</strong>. I'm breaking the chains that bind my brain.</span><br />
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I affirm: <strong>For me, dieting simply means eating good and healthy food and taking care of my body.</strong><br />
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">I think I'm ready...pray for me as I pray for you!</span><br />
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<i><span style="font-family: "Georgia","serif";"><span style="font-family: inherit;"><span style="font-family: inherit;">Beloved, I wish above all things that you may prosper and be in health, even as your soul prospers.</span></span></span></i><span style="font-family: "Georgia","serif";"><br /><i><span style="font-family: inherit;"><span style="font-family: inherit;"> ~ 3 John 1:2 ~</span></span></i></span></div>
Blaquehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02424582020806086459noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7621680410175600971.post-6696651803308458252014-02-20T09:18:00.001-05:002014-02-20T09:18:04.700-05:00#THROWBACKTHURSDAY<p class="mobile-photo"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhW5hHIi3hUIIErbgd6PXhfzinOFRxQ_klvi28063b01cjPkOcR93F8xCxWbcGN1GTw-PySNAQDqIskAvHbshPfxJRBHOr2fHNCghfjDKZjCzuUH0rFRd_gWH7AN0M8KJSqWk49fZMRBaw/s1600/bb4c33156fc7a5a400f74f30c5743f294-784700.jpg"><img src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhW5hHIi3hUIIErbgd6PXhfzinOFRxQ_klvi28063b01cjPkOcR93F8xCxWbcGN1GTw-PySNAQDqIskAvHbshPfxJRBHOr2fHNCghfjDKZjCzuUH0rFRd_gWH7AN0M8KJSqWk49fZMRBaw/s320/bb4c33156fc7a5a400f74f30c5743f294-784700.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5982485224131008818" /></a></p><div class="WordSection1"> <p class="MsoNormal">You have to hand it to me…when I go off track, I go <b>ALL THE WAY OFF</b>! I haven’t been to the gym since the 14<sup>th</sup> and my diet has been more like a free-for-all over the last several days. Can you say Carb City? I’d contemplated giving up…again, <b>BUT</b> I’m fighting my way back. Yesterday I did a little walking and it felt so good to go out in the sunshine and breathe in fresh air. As I walked, I was reminded of an email I had received earlier that morning. It was a copy of a message from Joel <em><span lang="EN" style="color:#444444;font-weight:normal">Osteen and it was about having a “victor’s mentality”. <o:p></o:p></span></em></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><em><span lang="EN" style="color:#444444;font-weight:normal"><o:p> </o:p></span></em></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><i>No, in all these things we are more than conquerors through him who loved us. </i> – Proverbs 8:37<o:p></o:p></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><o:p> </o:p></p> <p class="MsoNormal">I have to remember how far I’ve come on this journey and I have to keep a vision of victory. I have changed drastically over the last few years. I fought hard to get the bulk of my weight off and I have to fight even harder to reach my goal. I look at the picture I’ve chosen for today’s Throwback Thursday and it scares the hell out of me. I NEVER want to go back to that place. I NEVER want to see that body again. I have to remember all of the things I have survived…all the things that I have done that I never thought I could do. These last 10 pounds are no match for me. I will reach my goal!<o:p></o:p></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><o:p> </o:p></p> <p class="MsoNormal">So here’s to Throwback Thursday and to the fact that I am NEVER going back!<o:p></o:p></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><o:p> </o:p></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height:16.3pt;background:#FFFFE5"><span style="color:#333333">Thanks for reading.<o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><o:p> </o:p></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height:16.3pt;background:#FFFFE5"><span style="color:#333333">Always, <o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><o:p> </o:p></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height:16.3pt;background:#FFFFE5"><span style="color:#333333">Blaque<o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><o:p> </o:p></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height:16.3pt;background:#FFFFE5"><i><span style="color:#333333">Beloved, I wish above all things that you may prosper and be in health, even as your soul prospers.</span></i><span style="color:#333333"><br> <i> ~ 3 John 1:2 ~</i></span><o:p></o:p></p> </div> Blaquehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02424582020806086459noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7621680410175600971.post-49867245877781582512014-02-18T18:07:00.001-05:002014-02-18T18:07:41.761-05:00Taking Back My Power<div class="MsoNormal">
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">I’m going to be all the way honest, for the past several days I’ve blown it. Diet and exercise have been the last things on my mind. Losing weight requires a level of mental toughness but for the past few days I have been an absolute punk!
Getting older and the horrors of another Valentine’s Day coupled with major disappointments and harsh realities…it was just too much. I mean, I talked a good game about being positive and having love in my life in all the ways that matter most, but my </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">It’s all over now. For my own good, I’ve unceremoniously said goodbye to the root of some of my self-sabotaging behaviors. I’ve given this person, or the idea of this person, too much power in my life for too many years. I’m another year
older and hopefully a little bit wiser. It’s time for me to take back my power with the same ferocity that O.J. Simpson had when he took back his sports
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<span style="font-family: inherit;"><span lang="EN">I spent a short time this morning reading some of my favorite bible verses. And tonight, before I go to bed, I am dedicating at least a half hour to reading scripture. It all starts with
Him after all. Job 12:10 tells us that </span><span class="Heading22"><span style="font-family: "Calibri","sans-serif";">“It is God who directs the lives of his creatures; everyone’s life is in his power.”</span></span><span class="Heading22"><span style="font-family: "Calibri","sans-serif"; font-style: normal;">
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<span class="Heading22"><span style="font-family: "Calibri","sans-serif"; font-style: normal;"><span style="font-family: inherit;">I have been feeling a little weaker and a little more lost lately. But I am releasing yesterday and relying on my Lord and Savior and His word to
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Blaquehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02424582020806086459noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7621680410175600971.post-73335371590330385832014-02-17T10:34:00.003-05:002014-02-17T10:34:44.206-05:00The 43rd Anniversary of my Birth<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">Would you look at that face...at 21 I had flawless skin, bedroom eyes, and a body that didn't make me cringe every time I walked past a mirror. Today is my born day, and yes it's a blessing. But I was up all last night thinking about my weight loss journey and how it relates to me getting older.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">In my head, I allowed myself to believe that losing weight would magically turn me back into my 20-something year old self. But even after losing over 90 pounds, I have to accept the fact that I'm 43 years old and that I look like a 43 year old woman. 140 pounds looks vastly different on my current body than it did on my younger body and there is just no way around that. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">And what's even harder to accept is that I won't look like this 43 year old version of myself forever. The wrinkles will continue to appear and the grey hair will continue to take over my redish-brown locs. No amount of weight loss or healthy eating is going to change that. If God says so, I'm gonna get older, and older, and older.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">I've been so consumed with losing weight over the last few years that I didn't give much thought to getting old. But I suddenly feel my age swallowing me like a random sinkhole swallows a beautiful home...completely and forever. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">So now that my weight is somewhat normal, I have to seriously focus on my inner self as much as I have been working on my outer shell. Not only had I convinced myself that losing weight would restore my youth, but I believed that it would bring me a different level of happiness and that some god-like hero would knock on my door one day and sweep me off my feet as if life as a thinner woman would transport me smack dab in the middle of an irrational, illogical plot of a cheesy romance novel. Needless to say, none of that happened.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">I realize now that it's time for ME to do more of what makes ME happy. I've decided to make this The Season of Me. My 43rd year of life is going to be my most selfish, me-centered year ever. I can't get the last 20 years back, but I can make the rest of my days the best of my days.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">Whether it's your birthday today or not, my prayer is that you will do the same!</span></div>
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Blaquehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02424582020806086459noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7621680410175600971.post-33059978992281963002014-02-17T08:00:00.000-05:002014-02-17T08:00:04.679-05:00Black History Month Monday: Donna Richardson Joyner<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">Over the last 25 years, Donna Richardson Joyner’s purpose and passion has been to educate, empower, and energize children, women, and families about living a healthy lifestyle. She has the #1 inspirational Fitness Video in America, “Sweating in the Spirit” followed by ”Body Gospel”, which released in April 2010. She has starred in more than 25 award winning videos including the best selling “Buns of Steel”, ESPN, and Nike. Donna was recently appointed to the Presidential Council on Fitness, Sports, and Nutrition under President Obama. This is her second term serving under this capacity. She served her first term under President George Bush in 2006. Donna also was recently appointed to the National Advisory Board of the Robert Wood Johnson Foundation Center to Prevent Childhood Obesity. She will serve as a spokesperson to champion the cause to Reverse Childhood Obesity Epidemic by 2015.</span><br />
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It's cold and rainy in Hampton Roads today. And in my opinion, nothing goes better with a cold, rainy day indoors than a big bowl of home made chili. I've been making this chili recipe by Emeril Lagasse for years. It is amazeballs! It's so good that every year for Super Bowl Sunday, my cousin has me make him a big pot. Of course he pollutes his with animal flesh once he gets his hands on it, but hey, if he wants his stomach designated as an animal graveyard, it's a free country!</div>
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<li itemprop="ingredients">1 1/2 cups chopped yellow onions</li>
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<li itemprop="ingredients">2 tablespoons minced garlic</li>
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<li itemprop="ingredients">2 cups fresh corn kernels (about 3 ears)</li>
<li itemprop="ingredients">1 1/2 pounds portobello mushrooms (about 5 large), stemmed, wiped clean and cubed</li>
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<li itemprop="ingredients">1 tablespooon ground cumin</li>
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<li itemprop="ingredients">1/4 teaspoon cayenne</li>
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For some reason I can never find Serrano peppers, so I substitute jalapeno and at least one other mild pepper that I can find in produce. One year, I used habanero peppers...about 5 or 6 of them...you know, because they are so small? Now I like a little heat as much as the next spice lover, but trust me on this one: <strong><u>do</u> <u>not</u></strong> use more than one habanero pepper in this recipe. It won't end well. </div>
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In a large, heavy pot, heat the oil over medium-high heat. Add the onions, bell peppers, garlic, and serrano peppers, and cook, stirring, until soft, about 3 minutes. Add the zucchini, corn, and mushrooms, and cook, stirring, until soft and the vegetables give off their liquid and start to brown around the edges, about 6 minutes. Add the chili powder, cumin, salt and cayenne, and cook, stirring, until fragrant, about 30 seconds. Add the tomatoes and stir well. Add the beans, tomato sauce, and vegetable stock stir well, and bring to a boil. Reduce the heat to medium-low and simmer, stirring occasionally, for about 20 minutes.<br />
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">I have to admit, I was really dreading today. I don't know why exactly, but this year for some reason, I didn't want to hear the words VALENTINE'S DAY. But to my surprise, it wasn't too bad. I mean, I've certainly had worse days. I was reminded that I don't have to have romance in my life to have love in my life. I took my mother to breakfast, spent some time with my father and step mom, now I'm lying in bed next to the cutest 13 year old on the planet, watching him sleep and being thankful. I have love in abundance. Happy Valentine's Day to me!</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">After going way off my diet today, I made sure I made time for the gym. I had planned to run at least 2 miles, but my mind was on trivial matters at the time so I walked it out. 4 miles. Not one of my best workouts, I didn't even break a sweat. But I burned 375 calories. I'll take it. It's better to have walked and lost than never to have walked at all, right? </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">Now it's time for me to get ready for my big date. Billie Dee Williams circa 1975. My all time favorite movie is Mahogany and I can't think of a more perfect way to end Valentine's Day than to watch it with my favorite blanket and a bowl of fruit. It's the simple things!</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">I hope your day was a good one. I hope that you made time today to workout and/or do something special for YOU. And if like me, love hasn't found you yet, know that you're still being prepared for it. Anything that's meant to be will come in God's perfect time. Be patient. Be faithful. And while you're waiting for it, work on being the best version of yourself that you can possibly be.</span></div>
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Blaquehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02424582020806086459noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7621680410175600971.post-52728720295308425452014-02-11T08:56:00.000-05:002014-02-11T08:57:00.542-05:00No More Obsessing!<p class="mobile-photo"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEicaTlSidBAsHUr9Z3mBjZNKEd4m5MRtoAwLrpRYIy7DJTZ6KlzshdWfTSOmiYfQUsAQOWNp8S-kgBEozMu9HEmDrILWkBxdTNx7GsKzwhXrKtY5r9MLZXbFBgVJINqd9MpVvQAXXhNWpk/s1600/stop-720542.jpg"><img src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEicaTlSidBAsHUr9Z3mBjZNKEd4m5MRtoAwLrpRYIy7DJTZ6KlzshdWfTSOmiYfQUsAQOWNp8S-kgBEozMu9HEmDrILWkBxdTNx7GsKzwhXrKtY5r9MLZXbFBgVJINqd9MpVvQAXXhNWpk/s320/stop-720542.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5979140027177030978" /></a></p><div class="WordSection1"> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family:"Georgia","serif"">Happy Light of Day Everyone!<o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family:"Georgia","serif""><o:p> </o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family:"Georgia","serif"">I woke up this morning wanting to do a weight check. I knew I had slipped a little this weekend but yesterday I worked out hard and ate right. So I wanted a little head’s up before my official Wednesday weigh-in…big mistake. I’ve gained…a lot!<o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family:"Georgia","serif""><o:p> </o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family:"Georgia","serif"">Immediately I felt defeated. I started thinking that I would NEVER reach my goal weight. And really, it’s not like I chowed down on chips or soda or ice cream or chocolate this past weekend. I had a veggie burger on a wheat bun. I had Ritz crackers with chunky peanut butter. And I probably had too many protein bars. But I also had a salad, and fruit, and green veggies, and lots of water. I didn’t work out Sunday, but I worked out Saturday and Monday. Once I saw the number on the scale, I changed the battery thinking something had to have been wrong…but the cold, hard fact is that I have gained weight since last week.<o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family:"Georgia","serif""><o:p> </o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family:"Georgia","serif"">But then, something interesting happened. When it was time to take my son to the bus stop I was rushing and forgot my jacket. The bus driver looked at me and said “Your waist is so thin!”. Man, did I need that! <o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family:"Georgia","serif""><o:p> </o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family:"Georgia","serif"">I realized that I am going to have fluctuations. And even though I am not eating traditional “junk food” I still need to clean up my diet if I want to get rid of these last 5 to 10 pounds. I keep telling myself that I need to count my calories. 1200 calories sounds like a lot but I’m well aware that those little suckers add up fast. I also need to drink more water. I don’t drink anything else, no soda or juice, but I don’t drink nearly enough water and I know that will help.<o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family:"Georgia","serif""><o:p> </o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family:"Georgia","serif"">One thing that I decided however, is that I am not going to obsess over this. People continue to notice my weight loss so obviously I am doing something right. I am going to focus on working out, toning, eating as clean as possible, and only weighing myself once a week. If I do the right things, the weight will come off. But I can’t allow the process to consume me. I’m going to fight for it, but I won’t fight with it. I’ve found that the more you struggle with something, the tighter the grip it has on you. 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Blaquehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02424582020806086459noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7621680410175600971.post-17958030313302120682014-02-10T08:00:00.000-05:002014-02-10T08:00:10.433-05:00Black History Month Monday: Florence Griffith JoynerThis was a woman after my own heart. She was the epitome of beauty, athleticism, and style. Florence Griffith Joyner was a track and field super star. She is still considered the "fastest woman of all time" because the world records she set in 1988 for both the 100 meters and 200 meters still stand and have yet to be seriously challenged. Sadly, Flo Jo died in her sleep as the result of an epileptic seizure in 1998 at the age of 38.<br />
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<strong><u>Flo Jo on her style</u></strong><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: x-small;"><strong><u>Flo Jo on the day she became the fastest woman in history</u></strong></span><br /><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: x-small;"> <em>“I had a good start, a relaxed middle, and kept my knees up at the end. It was more or less a perfect race. When I saw that time, I couldn't believe it, but after the first race time I knew I could get into the 10.50's. It just made me realize that if I kept concentrating, I could go faster.”</em></span></div>
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Blaquehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02424582020806086459noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7621680410175600971.post-15612052480223069742014-02-09T09:44:00.000-05:002014-02-09T09:44:08.094-05:00Note To Self 020914<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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I'm so glad the weekend is finally here. It's been a VERY long week. <br />
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Yesterday I had lunch with an old friend at Moe's. I had a Tofu Burrito Bowl...687 calories. Yikes! But it was the first time I've had anything fattening in quite some time. And man, oh man, did it taste good! Besides, it's not about deprivation. It's about moderation. Right?<br />
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I went to the gym last night and did a little over 4 miles on the treadmill. It probably made a small dent into the 687 calories I had for lunch. I need to get more consistent with counting my calories. I'm going to try and make that my goal for next week. Wish me luck.<br />
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It took me about 40 minutes to complete this workout. The hardest parts for me are the planks. But I've found that it helps if I recite bible verses or the Apostle's Creed instead of watching the timer. Watching the timer is torcher and I keep telling myself that I'm not going to make it. Bringing God into it...into everything actually, gives me strength. Why wouldn't it? <br />
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I feel like someone reading this feels emotionally tired and frustrated with their weight loss or lack thereof. God knows, he's already worked it out. All you have to do is get out of bed and do ONE thing that will help Him help you become the person you were meant to be. Trust Him and believe in yourself!<br />
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A few weeks ago, I was parking my vehicle at the bank. When I got out, the car next to mine had a bumper sticker on the window that read: NO FAT CHICKS! I admit, at first, I was a little offended. The truth is no matter how much weight
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This whole “fat-shaming” phenomenon is going a bit overboard and has become more of a shield for people to hide behind.
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More than one-third of U.S. adults are considered obese and obesity-related conditions such as heart disease, stroke, type 2 diabetes and certain types of cancer, are some of the leading causes of preventable death. I for one think that
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We all can’t be a size 0/2 like the current winner of The Biggest Loser, nor should we. But we have to stop being hyper-sensitive and start getting real about health and fitness. Especially in the African American community where “a few
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Look, I have been over-weight for more of my adult life than not. I’ve had a few men in my life suggest to me that I needed to lose weight, and no, that never feels good. But now that I am thinner and healthier, I can understand where they
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So please, do ONE thing today that will start you on the road to a healthier you. Pray against anything that could possibly hold you back. Make yourself and your health a priority in your life. Don’t hide behind the word “fat” and bury
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But instead of dwelling on what I miss today, I am going to be POSITIVE and thankful for a slimmer, healthier body. <br />
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Lately, I've been on a roll. I've been getting in my exercise consistently. I've decided that I am never leaving home without my walking shoes because I just never know when an opportunity to walk will present itself.<br />
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If I get a chance to walk, even for 15 minutes, I take it. All this week before I've gone to work, I've stopped at the local mall and walked for about 30 minutes. Before the mall actually opens, there are quite a few people, mostly seniors, who come in the morning to get their exercise in. It's safe, convenient, and I'm able to take weather out of the equation. <br />
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Another way I burn a few calories is by climbing the stairs at work. Luckily for me, I work in a five story building. Once about every hour I get up from my desk and walk from the first to the fifth floor, then back down again. <br />
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When I do the stairs consistently, I see a big difference in my legs. Talk about toning!<br />
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My goal is to keep moving throughout the day. Then, if I'm able to hit the gym or pop in a workout DVD at home, all the other calories I've burned during the day are a bonus!<br />
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So when I look at my throwback picture, I may miss the way I look, but I don't miss the way I felt back then. I could have never made it up five flights of stairs multiple times during the day. And I certainly wasn't running on treadmills.<br />
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So here's to Throwback Thursday and to the fact that I'm never going back!<br />
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Yes! The scale is finally moving back in the right direction. I've lost 1.4 pounds since last week. I've been going to the gym and I've also re-started <em>Ripped In 30</em>. So my hard work is paying off and for that I'm so thankful.<br />
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I don’t expect her to look like she did when she was 30 or even 40 years old. But being that I am the one who has to look after her I realize that if God decides that I will
reach the age of 78, I won’t have anyone to help me get around. My only child has profound physical and mental disabilities. And marriage is a pipe dream I gave up on years ago. So I have to take care of myself now so that when the time comes, I will be able to be as independent as possible. Not working out and not eating right are
just not options for me. Unless I want to end up strapped to a gurney eating pea soup at some place called Shady Pines, I have to be as healthy as I possibly can. I’ll be 43 in 12 days, I don’t have forever to get this right.</div>
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This is my new motto. It’s what I have to live by and so should you!</div>
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If are reading this and you could stand to lose a few pounds or eat just a little bit healthier, know that it’s never too late. You are not too lost or too far gone. At any moment you can do one thing to help you become the person you want to be.
No matter how much weight you have to lose, it all starts with small daily actions.
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All the best to everyone who may be reading this today!</div>
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<i>Beloved, I wish above all things that you may prosper and be in health, even as your soul prospers.</i><br /><i> ~ 3 John 1:2 ~</i></div>
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